How
is a Christian to react to a fallen minister? I want to
preface this article by saying that I fall into the category of
having once been a fallen minister, thus my approach to this topic
will be different than most that you will come across. This topic
is long overdue, and my hope is to see an end result of a
scriptural approach to dealing with these types of situations.
The church is faced with this issue everyday, and there is no
clear teaching on how to deal with it. The lack of such
teaching leads to even more sin in the children of God.
'Cover-ups', bitter offenses, and moral complacency have been the
result. There are times when the repentant minister is still
shunned by 'loving Christians', and other times when the
unrepented sin is completely ignored. Both of these
responses are incorrect according to Scripture. Most of what will
be said in this article can be applied to everyday Christian
living, but we are going to focus on the topic at hand...the
fallen minister.
There should be a
clear distinction between what is and what is not morally
acceptable behavior for Christians. Even more so for the teachers
since they are judged with greater strictness (James 3:1). If
Christians are to be expected to raise any sort of moral standard
for the 'heathen', then that standard should begin with the
leaders and should come from the Bible.
Sin in the
Pulpit?
We need to first
establish that ministers are men capable of sin. They are
not superhuman with the ability to walk this earth without facing
temptations. There are some Christians who believe that
ministers are somehow exempt from temptation and sin. This
thinking is a result of ministers falsely preaching that they
carry a 'special anointing' and that they are 'THE man of God',
elevating themselves to a type of spiritual celebrity status
(according to Scripture, all Christians have the same Holy Spirit
abiding within them - there is not one man who is more 'special'
than another). This statement carries with it the notion
that these ministers are not capable of sin. This is not
true at all! Ministers do face temptations. In the
process of facing these temptations, sadly, some do fall.
Such wrong
teaching serves to create and promote an atmosphere of little or
no accountability for these servants of the Most High God. Thus,
the conclusion of the laity is inevitably, 'who are we to question
what this person says or does in the name of God, after all they
are 'THE man of God'. These men are no more than
that....men. Men who, as ministers of the Word of God, should be
held to the standard raised in that same Word of God.
What Sin?
As Christians, we
are encouraged by Scripture to look for the good in others. But I
believe that many take this to mean that we should sit idle while
ministers sin or treat others unjustly for fear of being
'judgmental'. We are taught in Scripture to judge sin in
Christians and yes, even ministers.....
1 Timothy
5:19-20 Do not listen to complaints against an elder unless
there are two or three witnesses to accuse him. Anyone who
sins should be rebuked in front of the whole church so that the
others will have a proper fear of God.
Ephesians
5:11 Take no part in the worthless deeds of evil and
darkness; instead, rebuke and expose them.
It should be
noted that these statements were directed at the
church...not the unchurched. In fact, the first one is
specifically for leaders in the church. It would seem that,
with two or three complaints about the actions of a leader in the
church....the complaint should be addressed not ignored. By
ignoring sin, whether it be from a minister or laity, we do
the person in question a great disservice. By addressing the
chains that binds them...we bring them to the beginning of the
process of restoring their broken relationship with God. If
we choose to ignore the sin and pretend that it doesn't really
exist....we are allowing this minister to hurt themselves and
those under their influence to an even larger degree.
Love covers a
multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8).
What a beautiful verse!! Let's start by affirming that
once we confess our sins to God and ask for forgiveness, his blood
then covers our sins because he loves us so much. His love
has truly covered a multitude of sins!! However, we should
note the process that needs to take place.
If we confess our sins to him,
he is faithful and just to forgive us and to cleanse us from every
wrong (1 John 1:9).
We cannot be forgiven without first confessing our sins and
repenting for what we have done. Confession - admitting that
we have sinned. Repentance - changing our heart (with
actions that show it) and asking for forgiveness. Once these
two steps are done...our sins are covered by the blood of the Lamb
because of his love for us.
Real
Love....
But how does this
apply to the types of situations that we are talking about?
I have heard this verse thrown around as a cover all for various
types of offenses against others and against God. When a
person offends someone else, we tell the person offended to
forgive because 'love covers a multitude of sins'...however, many
times no restoration in that relationship is attempted. In
fact, most times we as Christians do not want to address problems
in relationships for fear of upsetting the other person.....but,
in reality, if these problems were addressed and dealt with it
could serve to strengthen the relationship. The 'cover up'
goes even farther with fallen ministers, we seem to feel obligated
to ignore their wrongdoings because we do not want to bring shame
upon them, God or even ourselves (when in fact this shame is
present from the moment the sin occurred and not from being
exposed).
We are expected
to forgive others and, yes, God does forgive us.....BUT,
confession and repentance are necessary attributes to this
process. God does forgive and pardon, but he does not
forgive or pardon sins without confession and repentance.
Likewise, God requires us to forgive and pardon others, but he
does not expect us to forgive or pardon our Christian brothers and
sisters without confession and repentance (please note that I am
not talking about a simple misunderstanding.....I am talking about
sin). By not 'covering up' for someone's sin, we help them
to come to terms with what they have done, accept responsibility,
and hopefully repent. Pretending that sin is not present
(when it is) does not make the sin go away --playing the 'cover
up' game only shows how much we truly do not know God. By
dealing with the sin, we start the restoration process....for all
involved. BUT, to negate this portion of the process leaves
a void that can be detrimental to all those watching and waiting
for the process of restoration.
His Mercies
are New Each Morning!
After confession
and repentance comes the beautiful word - RESTORATION!! It
is important to exercise this process with love, mercy and
humility...so that we don't find ourselves falling into the same
trap. There should be no evidence of a self-righteous
attitude...remembering that we are predisposed to many of the same
weaknesses. During restoration, it is vital to remember the
love that Christ has for the person in question. Restoration
should be done with the utmost tenderness and with a genuine
desire to see that person restored.
The restoration
process should go only as far as the sphere of influence of the
minister in question (anything more than this would be nothing
more than mere gossip). Although this may be difficult for the
fallen minister, I believe that if they are truly repentant and
accept responsibility for their sinful action and if they truly
care about those to whom they minister....they will understand the
need for this process to take place. This provides an avenue
to see the fallen minister come to terms with the sin apparent in
his/her life, ask for forgiveness from God and any others
involved, and be restore both to God and to the others watching
this whole process. This also allows those offended to come
to a point of forgiveness toward this person as well - which is
also needed. For example, if the person in question is
a pastor, then the restoration process should go no farther than
his church or sphere of influence. The same would apply to those
in TV, radio and the like. This process not only brings
restoration to the fallen minister, and mending to the hearts of
those who may have been offended but it also brings a 'proper fear
of God' to the church.
What
Happens Next?
The question, of
course, still remains as to what should become of the church or
ministry under the service of the fallen minister. Should the
minister be put back into that service of ministry? This
course of action should be decided by the presiding board members
of that particular ministry, but here are some thoughts to ponder.
Let me start by saying that each minister restored to their
ministry should have a 'confidant', a person to which they can
openly and honestly share the struggles they have and be
accountable to concerning the 'weakness' they have in the area in
which they fell. By doing so, they acknowledge that they
have a weakness (which they need to do if they are to avoid future
falls in the same area), and make themselves accountable.
This will serve as a protective measure for the fallen minister -
by being aware of the devices of the enemy.
If the minister
is quick to repent and obviously sorrowful for his/her wrong
actions, there should be some 'time off' to recollect themselves
and to get their lives back together, and to reestablish a good
name. The minister should then be reconsidered for service
in the ministry. For the minister whose struggle with sin
may last a longer period of time, this does not disqualify them
forever from ministry, but there should be serious deliberation
taken before reconsidering the reestablishment of this persons
ministry because of the strong hold that sin had in their lives.
Of course, the 'time off' needed for recollecting themselves will
take longer, and it should be determined that this person has
control over their flesh before reconsidering these for the
ministry again. For those ministers who chooses to ignore
the promptings and conviction of the Holy Spirit and do not
repent, it is the responsibility of the Christians to pray for the
souls of such individuals. Should the day come when
repentance is obvious and this person desires to serve in ministry
again, there should be extreme caution used in reconsidering this
person. However, God works in ways that we do not always
understand, and should He desire to use this minister again...then
praise God for his abundant mercy.
Redemption
Forgiveness is
such a wonderful feeling. Bringing freedom from the chains
of sin that bind us and cleansing our consciences from guilt.
We have freely received our Lords forgiveness, and are then free
to forgive others who have offended us as well. Though we
wish it were not the case, ministers do mess up - and some will
fall into sin (of which I am one). But as Christians, it is
our responsibility to help restore them. Let us not neglect
our responsibility.
"Nothing strengthens the
judgment and quickens the conscience like individual
responsibility." - Elizabeth Cady Stanton
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